SAMUEL, AND HIS SON

ok well i think i told some of u about this guy SAMUEL and well we have been seeing eachother just as friends and well he is a really great guy he is also 16 and he has a son who is almost 2 years old and his son is just so cute and well he was tellin me a story and well he told me that his sons mom (his ex) died when she was in the hospital and she was 16 so anyways it was really sad and he started 2 cry so i was all sad and man he is the sweetest guy so we were talkin and when he had 1st ame 2 muh house i was all like aww is that ur lil bro he said no so i said o ur lil cuz-n and he said no so i was puzzled and then he said "Amanda, i would like 4 u 2 meet muh son Anthony" i was aw he is so cute and when i started talkin 2 anthony he was just being so cute and i asked him if he wanted 2 come with me and he held out his arms 4 me 2 pick him up. me and anythony played for like 5 min. and then Samuel started laughin and i said wut is so funny and he said "Anythony, usually never likes any girls, he is just used 2 mu mom and my sisters so i am surprised he wanted 2 come with u !" i was in shock anthony did look like the lil boy who doesnt want 2 come with anybody so the cutest part was when we were leaving (me and samuel were gonna go take anthony and muh lil sis 2 tha park) i was putting him in his car seat and he called me MAMA i wanted 2 cry he is really attached 2 me
well i really like samuel and he is really a great guy greater than anyone and muh mom and dad like him 2 but when i got home around 10 muh mom asked me 2 come into tha kitchen so i did and we had a talk and she said "Amanda i know u like samuel and i know u want 2 be with him but u also know he has a son and that is a big resposibility " so i said wut r u trying 2 say "i dont think u should become 2 attached 2 samuel and anthony because wut if things do not work out , then anthony will think that u do not want him nomore, and he will think that u r his mom since he doesnt know who his is"

and the sad part is that i have become really attached 2 both of them and they are both sweetie
i love them both so much i treat anthony as if he were muh own son and samuel says that he loves me and he really wants 2 be with me and he wants 2 treat me like i should be treated and he wants me 2 give him a chance and i dont know wut 2 do muh mom says not 2 get 2 close but how can i not they both mean everything 2 me so wut should i do???????

Sweetie I'm glad that ur having that LOVE feeling but your too young to take that responsibility, trust me its not an easy thing to deal with, I just hope your happy with whatever you decide to do in your life..take care lil mama

Your what 14,15 ? Trust me from expirience at your age you wont last 1 week supporting and taking care of someone elses children.As far as him calling you mama,just because he called you that doesnt mean he knows who you are.I have a little sister who is about the same age and she goes around calling me mama sometimes.

lmao...

girl im 17 and i was in the same situation....i dropped it...your 2 young u still have high school and college and thats nuff drama in itself...and if u and him dont work out..where is that going to leave the baby?...let him do his thing just dont get too attached....

TOTALLY AGREE WITH EVERYONE HERE. U TOO YOUNG! HELL HE IS TOO YOUNG TO HAVE A CHILD!! 16 AND HE IS ALMOST 2? HOW THE HELL U DO THAT? SORRY. I WAS PLAYING BASKETBALL OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT AT AGE 14! WHOA! ANYWAY YOU ARE WAAAAYYYYY TO YOUNG AND A CHILD AND A GUY LIKE THAT WILL ONLY HOLD YOU BACK FROM YOUR DREAMS THAT U WANT TO ACCOMPLISH...GIRL U NEED TO LIVE LIFE FIRST THEN CONSIDER THIS OBSTACLE...GIRL TRUST US! I WAS WITH A GUY WHO HAD A KID.....NEVER AGIAN WILL I DATE A GUY WITH A CHILD BECAUSE THEY ARE DRAMA, IN YOUR CASE THE MOMMY PASSED AWAY BUT STILL...CHILDREN NEED ATTENTION AND YOU ARE STILL A CHILD SORRY TO SAY IT LIKE THAT BUT GIRL THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES BEFORE YOU ACT ON IT...

YEAH GIRL, YOU TOO YOUNG FOR THAT RESPONSIBILITY NOW. I'M 18 AND I WAS IN THAT SITUATION BUT I WASN'T READY FOR THAT SO I STOPPED SEEIN THE GUY...THOUGH I DID LIKE HIM. IT WAS HARD BUT I GOT OVER IT. JUST MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING.

I agree with everyone gurl...your wayyyyyy to young to be a mommy....believe me...like everyone said you still gotta live life to the fullest...that don't mean u have to stop talkin to samuel...but u know..u shouldn't let anything or anyone come between you and what you want to do...just remember to do the right thing....


::: I edited ur post because you picked the font color as black and it couldnt be read :::

This post has been edited by ~* Princess Trisha *~ on Apr 28 2004, 02:20 PM

Well as your "mommy" don't do it..... Okay I agree with everyone on here you are too young to be that childs "mother". I understand that u thought it was cute that the baby called you mommy, but it really isn't. You have your whole life ahead of you where u will have you own children in due time, but for now you should be worrying about school and growing up. Theres not much else I can tell you that everyone else hasn't, but just trust us all and don't go in too deep.

you cant think jst about you and your feelings and sams you also got to think bout the his son....i mean like they said hes gonna get attached to you..i think thatll itll be best for the sam, his son, and for you to jst be a real close friend, cuase lets say you do end up together and you brake up, what is anthony gonna feel or think when your not around, and if you stay friends right now, maybe in the future when both of you are older and more mature something an happen, hey if you and sam are meant to be, then your meant to be, dont rush it!!!

good luck in todo grl!!!

thanx all yall well i thought bout it and well i told samuel that me and him should just be friends and well we decided that its a good decision
and right now i am currently seeing this guy but he is gonna leave 4 tha army


Thats him on muh avatar! !!!!!!!!!!!!!

thas him on your avator?? i take my advice back grl..RUSH IT!!!!!!!!!! oOoOoOoO ooooweeeee he bel looking good!!

heehee nah..but still yea friends is good for now!!!!

omg he is cute lol

yup thats muh amry dude Mark he is such a swwetie!
and he is hella cute !

I say Flip a Coin-
Heads you stay with him
Tails you don't

UUUMM ALL I CAN SAY IS FOLLOW YOUR CORAZON BUT PIENSALO BIEN WISH YOU BEST OF LUCK