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WELL GIRLS, I THOUGHT WE SHOULD TAKE THE TIME TO TALK ABOUT THE "MAN IN YOUR LIFE"...HAHA! I KNOW SOME OF YA'LL GOT A MAN AND ALL...AND YOU KNOW YOU WANNA TELL US ABOUT HIM! AND FOR THE SINGLE LADIES IN HERE...LIKE MYSELF...WANNA TALK ABOUT HOW WE PLAYIN THE FIELD! ...OR HOW YOU GOT YO EYE ON SOME CUTIE!

*BOYS, CAN'T LIVE WITH THEM, CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT THEM*

~WELL I'M SINGLE...AND DIS GIRL GOT HER EYE ON SOMEONE! HIS NAME IS JONATHAN. I WORK WITH HIM. I'VE ONLY LET A FEW OF MY CLOSE FRIENDS AT WORK KNOW BOUT THIS CUZ YOU KNOW I DON'T WANT IT TO GO AROUND. I WENT OUT WITH HIM RECENTLY TO A PARTY AND BEFORE WE HIT UP THAT PARTY WE STOPPED BY OUR WORK TO MEET UP WITH A FRIEND OF HIS. WELL THE MANAGER SAW US "TOGETHER" AND THOUGHT SOMETHING OF IT. WELL WHEN I WENT INTO WORK THE NEXT DAY, I WAS TOLD BY ONE OF THE MANAGERS TO "STAY AWAY FROM JONATHAN...DON'T TALK TO HIM...YOU STAY ON ONE SIDE AND HE STAY ON THE OTHER...YA'LL NEED TO BE SEPERATED". WHAT THE F*U*K KINDA BULL$HlT IS THAT!? I ASKED HIM IF THEY HAD TOLD HIM ANYTHING LIKE THAT AND HE SAID NO. BUT OH WELL...WE STILL TALK AT WORK! HE CALLS ME EVERY NIGHT TO SEE IF I WANNA GO OUT, YOU KNOW WE COOL LIKE THAT. BUT YOU SEE, I DON'T KNOW IF HE LIKES HANGING OUT WIT ME CUZ HE THINKS I'M FUN TO BE AROUND OR IF HE SOMEHOW...L,L...WELL YOU KNOW $%^&* ME!? I REALLY WANNA KNOW BUT MAYBE I'M EXPECTING TOO MUCH FOR NOW...CUZ WE JUST BARELY STARTED GOING OUT NOT TO LONG AGO. *SHOULD I MENTION THAT HE GAVE ME HIS # FIRST...I DIDN'T EVEN ASK FOR IT...?!* WHAT DO YA'LL THINK?

This post has been edited by *STARR* on Jun 5 2003, 04:39 PM

that's really mean.......that the manager said that.......that's none of his business....anyways...aww he gave you his number first!? how cute!!! maybe ya'll got something in commin. I hope everything works out for you guys!!!!!!!!



well for me i'm SINGLE!! and i do got my EYE on somebody.....that one boy i was talking about that he go's out with my friend sarah, but i dont know if they are going out.....still because i saw him at a dance last week and i thought she was going to be thee and SHE WASNT!!! sry..but i was happy! lol anyways.....he saw me....and was like "what's up?" and i was like "nothin much" and then he went...outside w/his friends.....then he came back....and b4 the dance was over...........he was about to leave but some gurl was talking to him and then i was like "ohh okay...." well then...i was about to leave so i looked and he gave her a hug.....then......she left.....and he looked at me.........and smiled and he waved to me.........and.......i wanted to give him a hug but he was walking out....so i was like "wait...." and we talked for a few mins.....and i was asking him if he wanted to be in my quincearna and we started to talk about it...and...i was like...."well do you want my #?" and he was like "yeah" i was like OMG!!!!!!!!!!! he's just really cute!!! lol....well yeah then he was like "i'll call u....(with a smile)" and he left.......but now the thing is that since somebody STOLED my cell phone......yeah...he can't call now..lol....well hopefuly i'll see him soon.

I think he's 16 but i heard he turned 17.

peace out.

1st: the manager told you to saty away from him?!?!? thats what my manager[[and everyone else]] told me bout hector-the reason, 'hes been around' 'he only has one thing on his mind' you kinow maybe your manager trying to protect you, or maybe he jst doesnt want to be how do i say..uhh..pay you for flirting you know? like he sees yall having fun and flirting, when your suppose to be working...not that you do that, but you know what i m,ean right??!?!?!?

2nd: he goes out w/ your frined!!!!! you know you wrong! but its ok...en el corazon no se manda right! well i dont know what to tell ya! does your friend know?!? OoOoOoO dont yoiu hate when your phone is stolen!!!!!!!!


my thing:
im taken not sure if its good or bad tho!! we have huge problems!! i mean not huge but everyday i mean everyday we se each other, we get into some argument! a really stupid one at that!! for exmaple, 2 days ago, he said something and i said something oh i told him my mom was mad at me, he goes why? i go ill tell you later, he goes why tell me now! i go no later when noones around he leaves, then i go up to him i go whats wrong he goes im not gonna talk t oyou untill you tell me, we were mad the WHOLE day! untill i called him and told him! see lil stuff!!! well

its all good with him, and oh yea i know bout 3 girls hes been with well 1 hes BEEN with and 2 he messed aroiund with [[funny theyre twins lol]] and i know 2 of his homeboys wanted to tlak to me before we got together, one of them came up to chuck-e on wed.
yea well ummm oh did i tell you he got mad at me last week and he told this grl 'hey come over here im free now!!' so everyone took it as he broke up with me i was like oh so we broke up hes like i never said that i go dont lie i heard it! hes like nah they misunderstood! i was liek whatever!!!

Note tHiS WAS POsTed oN JunE 3RD I mAdE A toPiC aBouT iT !!!!!(5 month)is the name


Hey gurls well i am sad 2 say that today Me and muh dude have decided 2 be friends man i cant believe that after 5 months we r just gonna FRIENDS man i gave him half of muh last year in middle school and he is gonna do this?????? man i have been crying since i have hung up with him ........JUNE 3RD 6:20 P.M IS A DAY NOR TIME I WILL NEVER 4GET !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!man i loved him so much and i new he was 2 good 2 be true man why do bad things always happen 2 good people why would he do this 2 me was it that he had another gurl was it that i wasnt good enough 4 him ????......man i need 2 know why man i feel that i will never want 2 be with any other guy again why would i wont 2 when he will just take muh heart and break it in half and uggh i feel like i need 2 live anymore i dont think i willll ever love anyone the way that i have loved him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i will never ever ever ever hold the hand of another guy as long as i live!!!!!............i can not type anymore cuz each word brings another tear 2 muh sad face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

that's stupid of your manager gurl...can't believe they could tell u something like that...besides it's ur life...and he's the one who calls u...if yall koo like that keep it that way..don't let anyone tell u otherwise...

Me well there's a guy i've had my eye on...i've posted a topic on what to do...but i never talked to him before he just stares at me...passes real close to me...when he can pass thru the half of the hall way...but i never got to talk to him so oh well..and there's this other guy i met..in a chatroom he's from east side funky town...his name is Jaime...he's 19, he's funny like hell and on the 3rd day we talked he asked for my # and i gave it to him...he gave me his house & cell # so he called me that night...and we talked for 3hrs straight...he told me about his life...and his family and i told him about mine...he made me laugh....damn the boy is funny...and he showed me his picture and he's aight...and he told me all these pretty things...ect...yall know how guys are... they trap you w/ thier special thing they do...and we've been talkin ever since...he's calls me 3 times a day...awwwwww how kute... and i've gotten to the point where i do liike him...and i don't want to b/c i don't want to get hurt again...and i don't know i just can't help myself...and he's into me to b/c he's told me how much he's been thinkin of me...told me over the phone...online...even thru e-mail...he sent me a beautiful poem...damn i loved it!! and i don't know i really like this foo...he made me forget about the guy i had my eye on @ school...he's told me alot of things that made me like him even more...but this time i have to be careful...were suppose to go meet @ the movies today...so who knows see how that goes...

I THINK YOU'RE RIGHT ABOUT HOW THEY ARE NOT PAYING ME TO BE FLIRTING AT WORK!! BUT STILL, THEY AIN'T GOT TO BE COCK BLOCKERS LIKE THAT! HAHA!

-FIGHTINHG OVER LIL THINGS LIKE THAT ISN'T EVEN WORTH IT GIRL! TRY BY ANY MEANS TO AVOID SHlT LIKE THAT!! THATS WHAT GETS TO ME THE MOST, WHEN COUPLES FIGHT OVER LIL THINGS!!!! INSTEAD OF GETTIN MAD TRY TURNING IT INTO A JOKE OR SOMETHING, YOU KNOW.

-XxSmileyxX...NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO!!!! GIRL YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG TO BE SAYING ALL THAT! OBVIOUSLY YOU'RE THE ONE WHO IS TOO GOOD FOR HIM!! DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME CRYING OVER THIS BOY...DO YOU THINK HE'S DOING THE SAME FOR YOU?!...NO! IT WAS ONLY 5 MONTHS...IMAGINE IF YOU'RE WITH SOMEONE FOR 1 YR. & GAVE THEM YOUR VIRGINITY AND THEN LEAVE YOU...HOW YOU GONNA ACT THEN?! I KNOW YOU MAY FEEL THAT YOU CAN NEVER LOVE SOMEONE OR BE WITH SOMEONE AFTER HIM...BUT IT WILL TAKE SOME TIME, IM NOT GONNA LIE, BUT TRUST ME YOU WILL BEGIN TO SEE OTHER GUYS AND FORGET ABOUT HIM. YOU'RE ONLY IN MIDDLE SCHOOL, RIGHT? WELL CAN YOU IMAGINE HIGH SCHOOL!!!! OMG GIRL...BOYS GALORE! DON'T GIVE UP NOW!! YOU MAY NOT BE WAITIN FOR SOMEONE BUT SOMEONE'S WAITIN FOR YOU!!!!!!!!

I AGREE WITH STARR. AMANDA U TOO YOUNG GIRLIE. DON'T SWEAT THIS LIL NIGGY. U HAVE U'RE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU AND U TOO YOUNG TO BE SOOOO IN LOVE WITH THIS BOI.

*STARR-GIRL YO MANAGER IS IT A GIRL? IF IT IS SHE JEALOUS. IF A GUY HE GOT ISSUES. GO ON WIT YO BAD SELF. JUST DON'T LET YOUR GUARD DOWN.

**H-TOWN_GIRL...ALL GUYS HAVE THEIR DAYS. JUST B CAREFUL. U'LL SEE IF HE'S GOOD FOR U OR NOT.

AS FOR ME!! I NEED HELP!!! AIIGHT. THERE IS THIS GUY I was TALKIN TO AND WE WENT OUT A COUPLE OF TIMES AND I was FALLING FOR HIM OR WHATEVER THEN he STOPPED CALLING AND NOW I'M TALKIN TO THIS GUY WHO HAS HAD FEELINGS FOR ME FOR A LONG TIME AND I WANT TO BE WITH HIM but THIS OTHER GUY CALLS ONCE IN A WHILE AND WANTS TO CHILL AND SHIT BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL HIM THAT I'M NOT INTERESTED. HELP!! AYUDA!! I DON'T LIKE PUTTIN MY BUSINESS OUT THERE BUT THIS IS SOME SERIOUS CACA. I LIKE THIS OTHER DUDE A LOT AND THIS NIGGY IS MESSIN IT UP! WHAT AM I TO DO!!! LMAO. THIS IS CRAZY I NEVER THOUGHT I'D PUT MY BUSINESS OUT LIKE THIS. WHOA! HIT ME BACK CHIX.

*PORCELAIN*...GIRL JUST TELL HIM, "LOOK FOOL, I DON'T LIKE YOU AIGHT! YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE YOU DIDN'T TAKE IT, PLAYED YO GAMES...YOU DONE MESSED UP! NOW IF I FEEL LIKE IT THEN I'LL HOLLA ATCHA LATA"...HAHA! THATS IF YOU WANNA BE STRAIGHT UP WIT HIM. ON A SOFTER NOTE, SAY "I WOULD CHILL WIT YOU BUT IM KINDA TALKIN TO SOMEONE..."...NAH GIRL, IM SORRY BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE "SOFT"...LOL! YOU JUST GOTTA TELL A FOOL STRAIGHT OUT WHEN IT COMES TO SHlT LIKE THIS, YOU KNOW!! GOOD LUCK!

-OH YEAH, MY MANAGER IS A GIRL! THE ONE THAT SAW ME AND HIM THAT NIGHT WAS A GIRL TOO. SO SHE TOLD AN ANOTHER MANAGER ABOUT IT AND THATS WHY SHE TOLD ME SOMETHING.-

~Starr - I'm kind'a in the same situation you are right now...so, I wouldn't know what to tell ya, girl...I'm asking the exact same questions you are! Let's just hope they feel the same.

~XxXdrewsbaby88XxX - Girl, if that's your friend's man...think about how this is gonna affect your friendship first before you do anything - regardless of how cute he is! If she's really a good friend of yours...then I would say stay away from him unless she has your blessings. Cause even if you do like him, He's still her man...and that will be wrong on your part. Trust me, I've made the same mistake before...And it was hard to pick up the pieces of that broken friendship and once you've crossed that barrier, you might never get that trust back. Boys will come and go...trust me...but friends, at least the really good ones, will always be there for you. Just think about it.

~h-town_girl035 - Every couple argues...It's a given! But like Starr said, you guys should just let the little things go...that's time wasted when you could be having fun together!

~XxSmileyxX - Girl, I already told you what I thought about this...I've replied to your "5 months" topic...

~:|:Slima:|: - It sounds like he really likes you! Make the best of it...don't expect too much out of him (that way you don't get disappointed if things don't work out)...Don't let your guard down too easily so you don't get your heart broken...but don't lose hope, either! Just because other guys have hurt you in the past, doesn't mean this one will! Just enjoy it while it lasts...

~*PorCelaiN* - Aight girlie...it's time to tell this other niggie good-bye! If you really like the person you're with now, just be straight up with the old one. Tell him he's done lost his chance by not calling...if he would have been taking care of business and called you like he's supposed to, then maybe you wouldn't be falling for another guy! Sometimes these guys just want what they can't have...but you'll just have to be straight up with him and say "tough Sh*t!" You've had your chance and you blew it! And I kind'a feel ya on putting your personal sH*t on the board...but sometimes it's the people who doesn't know you who can give you the best advice because you can expect them to be straight up with you! Ya feel me, girlie?

OKAY...now, let me babble about this boy I've had MY eye on....And you girls would have to tell me what you think

He's just really, really sweet...He lives in Austin (cause he's been going to school there)...but his family's over here in Dallas. And he just graduated and got his Bachelor's degree in Computer Science last month. Now he's thinking about going to the Airforce to be their linguist programmer (or something like that ). Anyway, this boy's got GOALS and I guess that's one of the other things that attracts me to him. I don't want another loser who just wants nothing else to do but party. He takes really good care of himself, he works out all the time, he's in track. We chat all the time and he makes me laugh. When I went to Austin for his graduation, we hung out all weekend. And the last night I was there, we just rented movies and watched them at his apartment. His friends had thrown some kind of graduation party for them that night, and he didn't even go because he said he completely forgot and we had already rented the movies. He was in town the weekend before last, and we hung out all weekend again. We went to eat with his family, we went to the Movies, we went to Hooters to watch the basketball game, went to his aunt's to go swimming...I just had so much fun with him! But the thing is, he's never told me anything straight out about how he feels about me...so I don't know if he does, or if he's just being nice and being my friend. I would get little signs sometimes that he does like me...but then I would have my doubts. And I don't want to just be straight out about it, cause what if I'm wrong and he doesn't like me that way? Then I'd just feel dumb..and it will be all awkward when I see him (which I know I will because he's my brother-in-law's brother)....See where the problem is? My friend said to just take it slow, because obviously something's there...but what if it's just me?

STARR I'M JUST LIKE THAT! I'M BLUNT BUT THIS NIGGA HERE IS LIKE.... I DON'T KNOW HOW TO PUT IT IN WORDS. BUT I'M A BREAK IT DOWN TO HIM TONIGHT. HE CALLED AND HE'S LIKE I WANT TO CLARIFY THINGS IN PERSON. I WAS LIKE AIIGHT. SO I'M GONNA GO SEE HIM AND LAY THE SMACKDOWN. LOL. I FEEL BAD BUT THEN I SAY "HOLD UP. WHAT FOR he STOPPED COMMUNICATION SO SKREW HIM." THANX GIRLIES!

*JOANNE....GO FOR THE GOLD!!!! HE SOUNDS GOOD BUT DON'T MAKE ANY MOVES CUZ I KNOW U CONFUSED RIGHT NOW CUZ U DON'T KNOW IF HE'S YOUR "FRIEND" OR IF HE LIKES YOU....I PUT THE WHISTLE CUZ I THINK HE LIKES U! AWWW!!! SOMEONE LIKES SOMEONE ELSE. I LOVE THAT FEELING! BUT JUST B CAREFUL AND KEEP YO GUARD UP.

Very Interesting

That one guy i liked...well him and his gf broke up...she broke up with him...i don tknow if i like him or...wut...i dont know, but i think he's cute!!

as for me, my azz is single for the time being pero yestaday i saw my old crush Jonathan Romero and i started crying for some reason..and then there's Herson..hiz friends was trying to hook us up pero i heard he's got a grl..but i dont like ne one else..so yeah