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WOW!! GUYS are Azz Holes, at the time I'm not SINGLE anymore but it feels like it. I mean I ONLY SEE him when I want which aint often and we talk whenever I'm home which is NEVER! So he pretty much just has the title "BOYFRIEND" and theres this other guy a friend of mine who goes over to the apt almost everyday to chill but I aint feeling him just NOT my type, then my secret BF that no one can know about, and then there RAUL....HMMMM RAUL, man I want to be his baby's momma he's soooooooooooo fine and sweet and SINGLE but has some long distance drama with his baby's mom and I promise no more guys with drama, I see him whenever I want which is cool

WELL I SAW MY BOY YESTERDAY! WHEN I WAS GOING INTO WORK HE WAS ALREADY LEAVING! BUT I WALKED HIM OUT TO HIS CAR CUZ HE GOT A A NEW CAR (99 MUSTANG) AND HE WANTED ME TO SEE IT. HE KNEW I GOT OUT AT MIDNIGHT THAT NIGHT AND HE WAS ALL "CALL ME WHEN YOU GET OUT", I WAS ALL "BUT I GET OUT AT MIDNIGHT", HE'S ALL "CALL ME". I WAS ALL "BUT I'M GONNA GO BOWLING WITH EVERYONE ELSE FROM WORK WHEN I GET OUT", HE WAS ALL "SO CALL ME". I JUST SAID ALL THAT TO SEE IF HE REALLY WANTED ME TO CALL HIM, YOU KNOW! HAHA, I KNOW WHAT IM DOING YA'LL! YOU BETTER BELIEVE I CALLED HIS FINE A$$!

*OK LOOK, THIS ISN'T MY GUY THAT IMA TELL YA'LL BOUT BUT HE'S MY FRIEND WHO'S FREAKIN HOT TOO. THERE'S THIS LADY THAT WORKS WITH US...IMA SAY SHE'S IN HER EARLY 30'S...WELL SHE IS IN LOVE WITH MY FRIEND BERNARDO (WORKS W/ME TOO), WHOS ONLY 17!! WELL SHE'S JEALOUS OF ME CUZ SHE FOUND OUT THAT I WENT TO PROM WITH HIM. SHE TELLS ME THAT IM LUCKY TO HAVE GONE WITH HIM AND ALL THAT OTHER SHlT. WELL TODAY AT WORK SHE TOLD HIM NOT TO TALK TO ME WHEN SHE'S THERE. AND SHE TOLD ME THAT IF ME AND HIM WERE TO BE ON THE SAME SIDE THAT I BETTER STAY AWAY FROM HIM AND GO TO THE OTHER SIDE! (I KNOW SHE WAS BEING SERIOUS!) SHE EVEN ASKED ME IF I HAD MESSED WITH HIM AT PROM OR WHEN WE WENT BOWLING! OF COURSE, ME BEING AS MEAN AS I AM TOLD HER THAT WE DID (BUT WE DIDNT) JUST TO SEE WHAT SHE WOULD SAY. YEAH...SHE GOT MAD! (BUT F*U*K IT!!) SHE GOT THE NERVE TO ASK HIM TO THE COMPANY PICNIC!! AS A FRIEND I TRIED TO GET HIM OUT OF THAT SITUATION BY SAYING THAT I HAD ALREADY ASKED HIM TO GO WITH ME...BUT SHE GOES UP TO ME AND SAYS -REALLY LOW- "YOU JUST GOT SHAFTED...BY A REAL WOMAN"...OOOOOOH! AND YA'LL, BERNARDO HAS NO CLUE THAT SHE IS ALL OVER HIM...POOR GUY! I TRIED TELLIN HIM BUT HE THINKS IM PLAYIN AROUND!!! WHEN I WAS LEAVIN SHE GOES 'WHERE YOU GOING", I WAS ALL "IM GOING HOME ALREADY, SO I'LL LEAVE YOU WITH YOUR MAN"...SHE GOT A HUGE SMILE ON HER FACE AND SAID "OK!".... I DON'T KNOW BOUT ALL THAT. I KNOW SHE DON'T LIKE ME BUT SHE TRIES TO ACT LIKE SHE'S PLAYIN AROUND WHEN SHE TELLS ME ALL THIS, YOU KNOW. SHE'S OLD ENOUGH TO BE HIS MOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!*

:::I DONT KNOW WHATS UP WITH THESE TRICKS TRYNA TELL ME WHO I CAN AND CAN'T TALK TOO. STRAIGHT UP HATAS, FOR REAL. I GUESS THEY ARE JEALOUS OF ME...CUZ COME ON, IM YOUNG AND ATTRACTIVE... IM THE ONE GETTIN THE GUYS (MY AGE!!) AND THEY AIN'T GOT NOBODY! I'M LOVIN EVERY SINGLE BIT OF IT TOO THOUGH, I AIN'T GONNA LIE. TO BE THE ENVY OF OLDER WOMEN...HAHA HOW IMMATURE...BUT F*U*K IT!!!:::

This post has been edited by *STARR* on Jun 7 2003, 07:40 PM

GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS......



LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING..... ONLY SOME OF YOU GUYS KNOW THAT SOMEONE HAD JUST CAME BACK INTO MY LIFE AND I THOUGHT THAT WAS IT!~ BUT ANYHOO.... ITS OVER AND DONE WITH AND ITS ALL SUCKS TO BE A GIRL... BUT LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING... IF YOU DONT TRUST THIS GUY FOR ANY REASONS AT ALL... AND YOU MAY NOT REALIZED IT... THEN I SAY GO WITH YOUR GUTS. BECAUSE I KNEW THAT I STILL HAD FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY.. AND I KNEW THAT THINGS WERE GOING TO GET COMPLICATED AND BLAH BLAH... NOW IT IS DONE AND OVER WITH BECAUSE I JUST KNEW IT... IT WAS MY GUTS TELLING ME EVEN THOUGH... I WAS ALWAYS TELLING MY GUTS TO "BEHAVE AND QUIT HATIN" BUT IT WAS FOR A REASON... AND IM GLAD THAT I KNEW BECAUSE IM LESS HURT THAN WHAT I USED TO BE!~ AND IM LETTING GO!~ ERRR.... STILL DONT LIKES!~

well girls...this b*tch is still single and probably stay that way forever. naw...but ive seen a couple of cute guys but they are all taken and ive been trying to stay away from those. ive learned my lesson already. but my loser of a babys dad went back to his silly ho. so im still very much single and looking. san antonio is having a lack of decent guys anyway. maybe i should move :hmm:no but there was this guy who is a cuz of cuz of a friend of mine. ive been trying to talk to him for awhile but both my friend and her cuz want to cock block. haters haters hater. lol. naw theyre cool. but thats bout it for miss mia.

This post has been edited by MiaLuvsDrew on Jun 8 2003, 11:27 AM

I'm single!!! I am talking to this guy who I REALLY like! Ok, this is my story: I saw him last yr for the first time @ a concert and I told my cuz Kathy damn he's a cuttie but I bet you that he's married gots a kid and is probably about 24 or 25. So I just left it at that and didn't see him again. Well this yr back in February I saw him again @ the TMA autograph session and I told Kathy look there's that cuttie again but yet again I didn't talk to him just passed by him said HI and smiled. Later on that same wk I was online chattin and I was talking to about 3 guys but they got borin so i just clicked them off. There was this one guy who I had just left hangin so I"m like hmm...let me see what's up w/dis fool!! So I'm like A?S?L? and he's like 20-M-TX. I'm like alright someone my age...so we start chatting talkin about what we do for fun and stuff and so I mention the event from February and he's like I was there and so on, so I asked more questions and he's like what do you look like so I send him my picture and he's like I remember you...I didn't hit on you b/c you looked to you. I was like bull caca!!!! So I'm like let me see your pic...he sends it and I start freakin out...I was all DAMN it's that cuttie and he isn't married or got kids like i thought. I was calm but I had to leave so we added each other to our buddy list. We talked the next day and exchanged #'s. The next day he called me and we just talked forever. He asked me if I was going to a Valentines dance that was goin on and I'm like no I haven't heard anything about it. So he give me all the details and Im like I dunno I'll see what's up. So everytime we talked he's ask me if I was going and I'm like "No, I don't know, I'll see". So day before Valentines we were talkin and he's like how about I take you out to lunch tomorrow I was like Hmmm...sure so we agreed and he picked me up at work and we went to lunch. He asked me again if I was going to the dance and I said I didn't know. So, I finally made up my mind and decided to go. I was all nervous I dont know why if I had already been out to lunch w/him earlier that day. So, me and my cuz show up at the dance and I see him at the consesion stand gettin something to drink so I tell my cuz brb. I'm standing there behind him and he was arguin w/the lady I bust out and say your bad and he's like I'm sorry is that your mom...I was like no!! He didn't recognize me b/c I was wearing a dress and looked better than i did when we went to lunch. So he smiles at me and asks me what's ur name so I tell him and he's like "I'm sorry I didn't recognize you" I was like damn. But we talked there for a while after the dance was over he walked my and my cuz out to the truck. Me and him stayed out there talkin for a while. out of no where he grabs my hand and kisses me I was like WHOA so I went along!!! Next day he called and appologized for not recognizing me and told me that he was surprised that I had shown up b/c he didn't think I was gonna since everytime he asked me if I was going I would say no, I don't know. Well, we have been talkin ever since and going out every now and then. I have talked and dated other guys during this time too but I just dont seem to click w/them like I do w/him. When I go out w/him I get butterflies in my tummy and I just cant' put in words how I feel and it's as if it was all a dream!!! It's just kinda crazy, but I gues I'll just have to wait and see what happens between us!!

This post has been edited by ~*Chiflada*~ on Jun 8 2003, 07:59 PM

I TOLD HIM...HE DIDN'T GET THE FLUCKIN HINT!! NOW HE WON'T LEAVE ME ALONE. I TOLD HIM TO STOP CALLING AND THAT I WASN'T INTERESTED ANYMORE. HE KISSED ME AND I BACKED AWAY. I TOLD HIM I DIDN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HIM ANYMORE. AND HE SAID IT'S OKAY HE STILL WANTS TO BE AROUND!!! GRRRR!!!! SO I'M AVOIDING CALLS. WTF DO I DO? I TOLD MY THE GUY I REALLY LIKE AND HE SAID TO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO HIM HE'LL GIVE UP EVENTUALLY & IF HE DON'T HE'LL LET HIM KNOW A THING OR 2. BUT WHAT DO I DO? I COULDN'T HAVE BEEN MORE BLUNT!!!

Well I'm not single actually I am about to make it officaial and get married. Well I have known my guy for years now. We met were he used to work he got me a job there and we started working together. It was cool well we had a break from each other and now we are back together and we have two boys together. Hes a wonderful father and loves his kids to death. Umm not much else I can say about him just that I love him and everything is going very good. He is a very changed person from the way he used to be.

QUOTE (h-town_girl035 @ Jun 9 2003, 06:30 PM)

*** this grl told me im too pretty for him and that i shouldnt be with him cuz all hes gonna do is break my heart and hes not worth it, she has known him longer.... that confused me!!!!!! or made me think what if shes right, alot of ppl told me thta  he jst plays w/ grls and dont take the seriously!!! heeeelp!!!!!!![/SIZE][/color]

^^^ GIRL, MOST THE TIME PEOPLE ARE RIGHT ABOUT WHAT THEY TELL YOU ABOUT A GUY...ESPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE KNOWN HIM LONGER. LET ME TELL YOU, I HAD TO LEARN THE HARD WAY...I COULD'VE LISTENED AND AVOIDED IT BUT I DIDN'T. I WAS TALKIN TO THIS ONE GUY AND PEOPLE WOULD TELL ME THAT I SHOULDN'T WASTE MY TIME ON HIM ALL HE PLAYS IS GAMES AND SO ON. BUT NOOOO, I DIDN'T LISTEN TO THEM, I THOUGHT THEY WERE JUST HATIN, YOU KNOW. WELL TURNS OUT THAT HE WASN'T TAKIN "ME & HIM" SERIOUSLY THE WAY I DID. AND ANOTHER THING...ALL I WAS TO HIM WAS HIS "SANCHA"...GIRL, I HAD NO IDEA HE HAD A GF!! THATS BECUZ I ASKED HIM WAY BEFORE IF HE DID AND HE LIED TO ME OVER AND OVER! SO YOU MIGHT WANNA THINK ABOUT WHAT THEY TELL YOU...NOT ALL OF THEM ARE HATERS.

HEY GIRLS HERES MY STORY.....


MY NIBBLES WENT TO JAIL FOR LIKE 2 TO 3 MONTHS. HIS GIRLFRIEND BROKE UP WITH HIM AND LEFT HIM HANGING IN JAIL. HE WAS HURT... I GUESS.... SO AFTER HE GOT OUT HE CALLED ME. WE SPENT THE WHOLE DAY TOGETHER AND JUST HELD EACH OTHER ALL DAY IN EACH OTHER'S ARMS. AFTER THAT... I ASKED HIM HOW HE FELT FOR THIS BRA. HE SAID THAT HE STILL CARES FOR HER AND THAT HE WAS HURT BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T WAIT FOR HIM. HE DIDN'T KNOW IF HE SHOULD TAKE HER BACK OR NOT TAKE HER BACK. SO I TOLD HIM THAT I WAS HURT BECAUSE EVERYTHING WAS "MUCKED" UP SO HE GOT MAD AT ME... .... WHY?!~ AIN'T HIS PLACE TO BE MAD.... AND TOLD ME THAT HE STILL HAVE LOVE FOR ME.... (WHATEVER) ..... IF HE STILL HAV LOVE FOR ME... WHY HURT ME?!~ ANYHOO... AFTER TALKING TO HIM.. I WROTE HIM A FEW LINES....


PLEASE READ AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU GIRLS THINK?!~


HEY HOW ARE YOU?!~ ME--NOTHING MUCH HERE-- JUST "WORKING" (YEAH RIGHT ) WELL I THOUGHT I WRITE YOU A FEW LINES, CAN'T YOU TELL?!~ IM NO ARTIST, I CAN'T EVEN DRAW A STRAIGHT LINE WITH A RULER!~ I HAVE NO TALENTS LIKE YOUR INTEREST IN ARTS. ANYHOO, I WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT EVEN THOUGH WE HAD OUR DIFFERENCES LAST NIGHT, I STILL DON'T HATE YOU. I AM HURT, NOT BECAUSE YOU "LEAD" ME ON TO HAVE ME HOPING FOR ANOTHER STEP IN OUR FRIENDSHIP. BUT I AM HURT BECAUSE DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO LOVE SOMEONE WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND THAT PERSON DON'T LOVE YOU BACK AND LOVE SOME ONE ELSE THE SAME WAY YOU LOVE THEM?!~ TU COMPRENDES?!~ EXAMPLE: ME, YOU, THIS BRA. ENOUGH SAID!~ IT HURTS ALOT AND IT DRIVES YOU INTO MANY DIFFERENT THINGS THAT IS UNCALLED FOR. I'M NOT GOING TO SAY WHAT I DID LAST NIGHT BECAUSE I KNOW YOU WON'T AGREE TO IT, AND IT'S MY MISTAKE. I'M NOT MAD AT YOU FOR CALLING ME OUT THE BLUES (LIKE I SAID "I LOVE IT!~ ), OR MAD AT YOU FOR "LEADING" ME ON. THAT PART I'LL TAKE THE BLAME FOR BECAUSE I WANTED TO TAKE THE CHANCE TO THAT KIND OF ROUTE. BUT, SEEMS TO ME THAT THE CHANCES ARE NOT WORTH IT BECAUSE YOU ONLY HAVE LOVE FOR THIS ONE SPECIFIC GIRL. THIS BRA. WHAT CAN I DO NIBBLES?!~ I CAN'T MAKE YOU LOVE ME OR LET YOU BE MISERABLE. IT HURTS ALOT BECAUSE I CAN'T MAKE YOU BE HAPPY. BUT I'M LETTING YOU GO. I LET YOU GO ONCE BEFORE AND I'M LETTING YOU GO AGAIN. BE HAPPY NIBBLES, DON'T LET ANYONE DRAG YOU DOWN. I'M LETTING GO BECAUSE I KNOW YOU LOVE ME ENOUGH FOR ME TO BE HAPPY. PLUSE JESUS IS IN MY HEART. LET HIM BE IN YOURS AND TRUST ME, JESUS LOVES YOU TOO!~ PASS IT ON BROTHER!~ TO BE HONEST NIBBLES, WHEN I SAW YOU THE OTHER DAY, I FELL IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN. IT FELT SO GOOD TO HOLD YOU INTO MY ARMS. JUST TO LET YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I STILL LOVE YOU AND WANT TO PROTECT YOU IN EVERY WAYS I CAN. BOY CAN'T YOU TELL?!~ MY KNEES WOBBLED ON THE BED, WHERE WE THOUGHT I WAS ABOUT TO FALL?!~ I WAS HEAD OVER HEELS!~ NIBBLES, AS FOR THIS GIRL, I HOPE SHE WILL WALK EXTRA MILES, REACH THE STARS, AND MOVE THE EARTH AND SUN FOR YOU. I'M GLAD THAT I DON'T LIVE IN CORPUS BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE TO WATCH YOU SHARE YOU LAUGHTER WITH SOMEONE ELSE. IT HURTS!~ IT HURTS TO EVEN WRITE ABOUT IT!~ TRUST ME, I HAVE COUPLE OF TEARS ROLLING DOWN!~ I WISH YOU NOTHING BUT THE BEST BABY BOY. I WAS ALSO UPSET BECAUSE I WAS TRYING TO MAKE A REAL POINT, BUT YOU WOULDN'T SEE PAST IT, IT'S CLEAR TO ME THAT YOU CARE FOR THIS GIRL SO MUCH THAT YOU WERE MAKING A STATEMENT WHERE WE ALL KNOW IT'S IMPOSSIBLE. IT'S OBIVIOUS THAT YOU WERE HURT BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T WAIT FOR YOU WHILE YOU WERE "CHATTING WITH YOUR INMATES!~" GOING TO JAIL IS THE SAME THING AS GOING OUT OF TOWN BECAUSE YOU'RE GOING SOME WHERE YOU CAN'T BE SEEN FOR COUPLE DAYS... WEEKS... MONTHS... OR YEARS. BUT YOU'RE NOT GONE FOREVER!~ ONLY FOR A LITTLE WHILE. SHE CAN'T CHANGE WHO YOU ARE. ONLY YOU CAN AND BY DOING THAT IS MAKING CHOICES. GOING TO JAIL ISN'T WHO YOU ARE. YOU CHOOSE TO GET BUSTED. NIBBLES, SMOKING WEED IS WHO YOU ARE. YOU'RE A POTHEAD (WHO CARES!~ ) YOU CAN GO OUT AND SO WHAT YOU LIKE AND ONLY YOU KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES WHEN IT ALL COMES DOWN TO IT. SO YOU CHOOSE TO TAKE THE BIGGEST CHANCE IN YOUR LIFE. DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!~ IT'S THE CHOICE YOU WANT TO CHOOSE. I KNOW YOU CAN'T EXPECT A GIRL TO WAIT FOR YOU WHILE YOU'RE GONE FOR A SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME OR EVEN FOR A LONG TIME. BUT NIBBLES, IF SHE LOVES YOU, SHE WON'T CARE HOW LONG YOU'RE GONE. IN FACT, SHE WILL BE COUNTING THE DAYS FOR YOU TO COME HOME. SHE CAN'T SAY THAT SHE LOVES YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING BECAUSE LOOK AT ME NIBBLES. I WAITED FOR A YEAR AND A HALF TO HEAR YOUR VOICE AND TO FIND OUT THAT YOU STILL HAVE LOVE FOR ME. I'M THE DUMBAZZ ONE. IN FACT, I WAITED 2 YEARS TO SEE YOU IN PERSON. 2001 WAS THE LAST TIME I EVER SAW YOU AGAIN. BUT HEY I DON'T FIT IN YOU DESCRPITION OF "DREAM GIRL" TYPE. WHAT CAN I DO?!~ LIKE SOMEONE OUT THERE SAID: "FRIENDS ARE BETTER THAN NOTHING" AND "IT'S BETTER TO LOVED THAN TO HAVE NEVER LOVED AT ALL!~" I KNOW YOU WISH ME THE BEST IN MY LIFE AND HOPE THAT I WILL FIND SOME ONE TO GIVE ME HIS WORLD AS MUCH AS I WANT TO GIVE HIM MY WORLD. I KNOW THAT I WILL. IT MAY NOT BE TODAY OR TOMORROW... BUT IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD. NIBBLES, ALSO THINK ABOUT THIS. WHEN YOU GO TO YOUR COURT ON JUNE 18TH IS THIS GIRL GOING TO STAND BY YOU IF YOU GO TO JAIL FOR 3 TO 6 MONTHS OR A YEAR?!~ OR IS SHE GOING TO HURT YOU AGAIN?!~ DO ME A FAVOR NIBBLES, LOOK AFTER YOURSELF. TRUST ME, I WANT TO DO EVERYTHING I CAN IN MY POWER TO PREVENT YOU FROM GETTING HURT. THAT'S IF YOU EVER DO. I GOT YO' BACK DAWG!~ WELL IF YOU'RE WILLING TO LET THIS FRIENDSHIP REMAINS... THEN LET'S KEEP IN TOUCH. I'M NOT GOING TO CALL BECAUSE I DON'T NEVER KNOW WHEN IT'S THE BEST TIME TO CALL. I'LL LET YOU DO THE CALLING, OR WE CAN BE PEN PALS. WHATEVE YOU LIKE THE BEST, I'M HAPPY WITH BOTH. IF YOU DO GO TO JAIL NIBBLES, WRITE ME, I'M STILL HERE. TAKE CARE BECAUSE STEFANI CARES.

Okay girl let me see what can I say that I haven't already told you. Its good that you wrote that letter I mean its so much easier to say what you have to say on paper it just comes out so much better and what you said are your true feelings something he should know. I think everything in that letter that you have told him is good. I doubt that, that girl will be there waiting for him if he does a little time she didn't before and thats when he going to think about everything you said. I mean once he receives that letter trust me you will be in the back of his head for a while just thinking about "Am I make the right choice is this the girl for me or should I just say *UCK it and go with the love of my life" Cuz you know girl you are the love of his life like I told you ya'll have a past that not you or him could ever forget and you know why. Now I think that you need to give yourself that space with him and let broken heart of yours mend. You don't want to contiue to talk to him and have contact cuz its harder for you to get over it. Someone else will come along and hey you never know he might be the one for you and he might not but thats a chance you have to take. And when you do find that ONE your Nibbles might come back into the picture and thats when your going to be like you had your chance and now its my turn to find happiness. Like I said I know you will find you someone you are pretty and nice girl don't sweat him cuz he isn't sweating you. All he is doing is thinking about everything that you told him and thats it he still wants her. So you send him that letter and let that be your CLOSURE! I'm here if you need anything. And don't worry someone will come along.

answer me this please....

on tues. hectors homeboy[[O]] came to our job, OMG he looked SOOOOOO good!! and well when i first started working there hector introduced us cuz he[[O]]wanted to get w/ me and hector said he couldnt get with me cuz his homboy[[O]] wanted to talk to me...well [[he forgot bout that huh..]] well i know ive been thinking SO much about this other guy!!! jst thinking bout him makes me smile and gets me all girly like...i dont think its wrong cuz hector hasnt been there for me..i mean we havent talked or been alone in a long time..you know....im thinking whats up with the homboy..lol i know it wont happen...well am i wrong for thinking more bout O that hector?