Clubs

OK WELL.....THERE'S CLUB AND IT'S FROM 13-17 YRS OLD...AND WELL MY MOM DOESN'T LET ME GO BECAUSE SHE DONT WANT ME TO...SHE SAID I CAN ONLY GO WHEN I'M 15...THEN SHE' SLIKE 20 (BUT SHE'S JOKING) AND I DONT TAKE IT AS A JOKE CUZ I REALLY WANNA GO..AND ALL MY FRIENDS GO....WELL SUM OF THEM..AND I KNO SUM THAT CAN'T GO..BUT, WELL TODAY I FOUND OUT MY COUSIN WENT HE'S ONLY 13..AND HIS FRIEND......AND MY COUSIN ERICKA GO'S SHE'S 16..AND MY OTHER CUZ'NS GO AND THEY ARE ABOUT 17 AND I KNOW THEY WOULD WATCH ME.
BUT MY MOM MAKES ME MAD...BECAUSE I REALLY WANNA GO I FEEL THAT SHE DOESN'T TRUST ME TO GO....I WON'T DO ANYTHING BAD...SHYT HERE IN MICHIGAN THERE ISN'T NOTHING TO DO....I MEAN WHEN I DONT HAVE NOTHING TO DO ALL I DO IS SIT AT HOME DOIN NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AND WELL I MEAN TONIGHT THEY ONLY HAVE TEEN NIGHT ONLY A COUPLE OF MONTHS....AND, I REALLY WANNTED TO GO AND I CAN UNDERSTAND SHE DOESNT LIKE THAT THERE WOULD BE GUYS THAT ARE 17 YRS OLD THERE...BUT I MEAN THERE ARE ALOT OF PPL AROUND....AND.....OLDER PPL WATCHING THE KIDS.....I REALLY WANTED TO GO TO HAVE A GOOD TIME..AND SHE SHOULD TRUST ME TO GO, REALLY I DONT REALLY GET TO HANG OUT WITH MY COUSIN BECAUSE SHE'S ALWAYS WITH HER BF NOW...AND SUMTIMES SHE WANTS ME TO GO AND MY MOM SAY'S NO...AND...BASICLY MOST OF MY COUSIN'S ARE IN TEXAS...AN THE ONE'S HERE I REALLY DONT SEE MUCH....OR THEY ARE OLDER THEN ME..AND I'M NO GOING TO DO ANYTHING STUPID...AND I FEEL THAT SHE DOESNT WANT ME TO GROW UP..BUT I HAVE TO.........PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK!?!?? MY SIDE OR MY MOMS????

This post has been edited by XxXdrewsbaby88XxX on May 25 2003, 10:42 PM

i really dont know what to say, i go thru the same with my mom and dad, and its not that i FEEl she dont want me to grown up she TELLS me your growing up and i dont like it ...

ye anyways, your 13?!?! ok what can you do, nothing! got to wait it out mija!and i thought the same with my mom she dont trust me but i get it now that its not she dont trust me its she wants the best for me, and she doesnt want me to make mistakes that ill regret later on! you get me! but she also has to understand you can only really learn from your mistakes! but anywhoo....this is a hard situation to give advice on cuz its a 'daughter-mopther' thing you kknow and everyone has a diff relationship with thier mothers, and i can tell you what i would say to my mom in that situation but it prob wont work with yours you get me!

sry i coulndt help

hey hey i am going thru the same thing right now muh mom used 2 always let me go out with muh cuz-ns and now she doesnt but i am talkin about like BIG CLUBS not no 13-17 clubs cuz muh big cuz-n would always watch me and then one night when i got home she saw a big @$$ hickey and she whent totally mental but who wouldnt and man i was so mad cuz the next week chicos de barrio were comin and i wanted 2 go and she said no i was so pissed and thats not kool but we had a BIG talk and well she told me that she doesnt mind when i go out everyonce in a while but when i come home BUZZ-N and with that ting on muh neck she said that means that i do not love her and respect her b-cuz if i did i wouldnt even had went and then she started ( ) so i did 2 and man i dont go out anymore may-b just 2 the move-e's or the mall with muh friends or when i go 2 the park with muh boyfriend but thats it now i stay home with her muh daddy and muh lil sis ......

so yea i think u should respect ur mom and not go out YET wait a lil bit its not like the CLUBS r gonna go anywhere man well thats muh opinion and if u dont likes well then o-well j/p!

I know what you mean girl my mom was like that with me too. Once when I was in 10th grade my friend called it was a guy and he wanted me to go to teen night with him and she wouldn't let me go. My dad has this rule that I can't get in the car with anyone under 21 and I'm 18 ugh!

know what u mean gurl...my mom sometimes acts like that too...she use to be real strict about me not talkin w/ guys...not havin friends especially guys over the houe...ect...and since i turned 15 she's been koo about that...she let's me talk w/ guys....have them over the house...but my dad is the one that trips about it the most...that b/c i'm a daddy's gurl...n since iim the only child..."the baby" .....my mom trips b/c she only lets me go out w/ my sis/cuz vanessa....and man ask vanessa man my mom is strict up the azz... i have to kiss azz ALOT sometimes to let me go out....now to the clubs...i don't think she would let me....especially those 13-17 clubs...but it's all good in 3 more yrs...as soon as i turn 18 i'm hittin them clubs!!!!!!! my b-day is gonna be on a saturday...and it's on....i know i ian't comin back til 5am!!!!!!

AND YOU KNOW DIZ...MAN!!!!!!

Thanks gurls, for that adivce!!!!...yeah i'm 14 years old i'll be 15 in august.
well idk...it's just that i really want to go because my friends go...but i guess i can wait until my quinceanra.
but i just found out there is a teen night June 15th, so maybe my mom changes her mind.
Thanks Again!

PLEASE YOUR MOM UNTIL AUGUST. IT'S NOT THAT FAR. MOST GIRLS YOUR AGE WANT TO GO CLUBBIN BECAUSE IT'S SOMETHING DIFFERENT. I UNDERSTAND. YOUR MOM SHOULD LET U EXPERIMENT BUT SHE SAID 15? THEN GIVE HER TIL U ARE 15. U DON'T WANT TO GO BEHIND YOUR MOM'S BACK CUZ THEN SHE WILL REALLLLLLY NOT TRUST U...TRUST ME ON THIS ONE. MY OLDER SIS DID THAT TO MY MOM. BE GOOD AND DON'T DO NOTHIN STOOPID THAT U'LL REGRET LATER. WHEN U ARE UNDER 18 CLUBBIN SEEMS LIKE THE SHIZNIT CUZ THE RUSH OF TRYING TO GET IN WITH NO I.D. EXCITES SOMETIMES. BUT ONCE U TURN 18, 19. 20 ETC. CLUBBIN AIN'T ALL THAT! IT IS IF U GO WITH A BUNCH OF FRIENDS AND MEET NEW PEOPLE...BUT ONCE U MEET ALL THE PEOPLE AND GO WITH THE SAME BUNCH IT'S NOT AS TIGHT AS IT WAS BEFORE. THAT'S HOW I SEE IT I DON'T KNOW HOW OTHERS ARE. JUST BE CAREFUL GIRLIE! MUCH LUV FO U! :)

Well this is how I see it. Its cool cuz its a teen club and all and they don't serve alchol or anything so why not beable to go, but then on the other hand I also see where your mom is coming from. My mom was the same way. When I turned 18 my friends took me out to a club (my first time at one) and my parents wanted me home at 10:30 I was like HELLO. So actually you have it better than I did cuz at least your mom said 15 and I had to wait till 18. So just sit back and relax and your time will come. Be patient and when you do go be very careful

Yeah I agree with my chick Porcelain. I understand too how it feels to want to be out there and experience the scene and the good thing is that it's a teen club, so no alcohol is served. But it would be smarter to wait. Show your mom you're mature enough to respect her rules (hey, it's her house right?) and then she'll see that since you're mature enough to respect her then she'll let you out. Trust me it ain't no big thang once you turn 18, I'm 20 and I don't even club. Why? Cuz I would do it all the time before I turned 18, so we all understand how you feel. Good luck girl, hope your mom sees it your way soon.

^^ yah..thats exactly how i feel.....because i really want to go because my friends go and it looks like fun an.....well they DONT serve beer or en thing so idk.....why she dont let me go but i guess i could wait until i'm 15...it's just that my friends say "Come on let's go......." and it's like....what do i say......i sometimes make sumthing up.

but yeah, i guess i could wait. thx ya'll are the BEST EVER!!!

I've only been to 3 clubs my entire life-

Senor Froggers-Bad @ss place
Friendsies-or somethink like that in Mexico

Tejano Texas

I guess I don't care for Clubbin-

YEAH MY MOM ONLY GIVES ME ONCE A MONTH TO GO WITH MY COUSINS AND WELL I LOVETO DANCE AND SHE WON'T LET ME GO UNTIL NEXT MONTH WELL TALK ALATERZ

damn sux i know..been there...n i'm stuck here..LOL...

oh gurl don't worry about it a month will pass like woah...be patient...

CLUBBIN AIN'T CUT OUT TO BE WHAT IT SEEMS! THERE IS BETTER THINGS TO DO...TRUST ME!