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Posted: May 22 2003, 06:19 PM

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SUP KUEENZ OF BILNG!!...well i'm bored up the azz today...and one of my friends asked me a questoin that got me to thinking.....

If you had a friend, u and her go waaaaaaaayyy back yall were real tight...and then you like this guy..but you never told her...and she never told you that she liked the same guy you did...and one day that guy ask you out...and you say yes...and w/ out knowing...you friend likes him you say yes...one day you find out your friend like him....would you leave the guy to make your friend happy??

When my friend told me this i was like...

oh hell you like my guy...but she said he uglay...so i think that's a good sign...

so what yall think...

Drewdreama

Posted: May 22 2003, 06:38 PM

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Hmmm....dat IS a hard one....i dunno. I'd like to say dat i would leave da guy to make her happy. But....well, who am I kiddin...I probably WOULDNT. I dunno...she shoulda told me since the beginning dat she liked him. And yes, I know....no guy is worth losing a friend...but...well...shoulda said sumthin before. It really WOULDNT be my fault cuz i didnt know she liked him. But u know wat? Wat if it turns out dat dat guy is the love of my life...wat if dats da same guy im gonna marry in da future...i would like to find out. And I guess I would talk to HIM about it and see wat he thinks. If he likes her too...which i doubt cuz he's with ME....well, then he should go with her. if he dont even like her...then y break up with him? He not gonna go with her anyway...
Ya'll might think i sound mean, but dats juz da way i feel.

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Posted: May 22 2003, 08:17 PM

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OH gurl, idk...that's a toughie......i think that it's my choice to like a guy or not..because maybe i just felt that it was personal to tell her or maybe she would have told somebody else...but i dont know..i prolly stay with a friend i guess.

La_Dreamer

Posted: May 23 2003, 02:58 PM

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U know it is stupid to lose a friend over a guy but damn it happened to me me and my homegirls had been best friends since we were tiny we did eveything together and she knew i lied this one guy and the next day i find out they started going out so i was like ok no biggie i'll forgive but no it happened again with another guy and again with another guy so that friendship ended after 15 years sad but true

lachinita

Posted: May 23 2003, 04:25 PM

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well grl..if me and my homegirl were real tiight and we like tha same guy and i went out wit him witout knowin' id tell her what would make her happy..then i'd tell me novio (if he really likes me he should understand) that no one can come between a friendship like ours..pero if it's iight wit him if at a different time i'd get another chance wit him cuz i dont wanna hurt my friend..i aint like dat

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Posted: May 23 2003, 04:49 PM

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Hey kueenz...your responses were very interestin...well i've had many losses of GREAT friends...some of them were b/c of guys...i had a BEST FRIEND...her name was jessica me n her goooooo waaaaaayyy back...we've been BEST FRIENDS sicne pre-K...we stoped tlakin on our 8th grade yr...b/c she changed on me...talkin shiiitt behind my back....b/c other gurls..who didn't like me...so she decided to kick it w/ them ....and that was fine...i was hurt...b/c she jst threw away those 10yrs of friendship...it was always me, eva,krystal, and her...and now none of us talk...all b/c of lil shit...and i've been thru 3 losses of friends...and i never did anything to them...i was always there...it's them who truly change...thru sometime...but oh well one of them was b/c she liked a guy that i went out w/...but i never knew it...and now friends of mine i met this yr...were askin me that question that made me really think and made me nervous...

Posted: May 24 2003, 05:06 PM

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You snooze YOU lose!! Its her fault for not saying anything....
Me and my girls have this one RULE...we dont EVER EVER hook up with a guy a friend likes or has dated oe even messed with, thats like our GOLDEN RULE..but the catch is, they have to know, meaning if we go to a club or whatever and I see this guy and we talk get his numba and what not, then later that night my girl mets him on her own and never says anything and I never say anything then the rule dont apply....LOL we're weird..