Just A Problem, my cousin is having

I know we probably already discussed this but i'm not sure its been a ong while since i've been on here. since i'm so hooked on being on the Catholic ansers forum. but unfortuantely their borad is down for maintenace and its driving me crazy. well anyways, well see the church that my cousin goes to had their annual Jamaica. they just gotten a an anew priest but he is just the assistant though. but He was just ordained to the priesthood last month. well, see here goes the problem see my cousin and him were talking with eachother for awhile over there and they took a pic together. but then i have heard him tell her that he was still unsure about his vocation but he is glad that he went to the seminary and that he is a priest now. she was like thats good she's happy for him.

But now she is confused, cuz you know how people say go with your feelings and follow what your heart says. well, anyways she was telling me thatshe thinks he is the one for but she knows that priests are not suppose to date or have a girlfriend in that matter but she she doesn't know what to do. See her and fr. ernest have been good friends for two years now i believe since he was in the seminary and was an priestly intern. With what I have seen Sunday at the jamaica he was lalways smiling at her and waiving at her everytime they passed by eachother. Or he'll stop and talk to her for a few minutes and then he'll go back to walking around. Then when me and her were sitting in the Parish hall bench he was going back outside she didn't even knoe he was in the cafeteria until she saw him walk ing out and he asked her are you tired? she was like yeah. he was like getr up lets go walk come on, she just busted out laughing he did to. she was like ok. so me and her got up and walked. Well she walked with him they were just talking and he had her laughing. I went my seperate way though. then when i saw her she was walking by herself. thats when i had asked her what's going on between them two? she was like nothing we are just friends and then she goes he's a priet I can't do anything about it. Then she goes she just doesn't want to talk him out it cuz he just got ordained andnshe doesn't want to come in between him and the priesthood. Its just a difficult decision and she said if they are to be together in the future well its well worth the wait if he decides to leave the priesthood on his own. But if not she is just gonna leave it the way it is.

i really felt bad for her cuz i could see on that day how they really had connected with eachother I know with god's grace he'll help her get through this confusion she is haveng and also with him. Its a hard cuz I know what kind of guy she is lookign for is a guy who is a good catholic boy who goes to church every sunday. But it just seems like everytime she meets one or knows of one they go to the seminary to become priests so I don't know what to tell her. he also told her don't leave without saying bye to him so she went to find him to give him a hug and say bye. but I don't know i think she jusyt needs to leave it in god's hands I think the head priest there at the the parish she goes to noticed it to but he didn't say anything though well atleat that i know of Maybe some of y'alls advice will help.

Tough situation she is in i know who you are talking about, i was there at the Jamaica too. By the way Flaca it was good seeing you again after its been along time. I saw anna and him walking and talking too and i had also heard that but you know he is just still discerning his vocation to see if the Priesthood is his true calling. i know that he justgot ordained to the priesthood last month and all but he is the associate priest there though. I know its hard for him right now the first few years are gonna be a little tough on him but if i the priesthood is his true and final calling he will realize it and stay in the priesthood. iof not then he'll probably notivce it and leave on his free will. See Anna is a very respectful of that she's just confused, and maybe that is a sign, but you know anna isn't like some of them other girls out there that don't respect that out of a guy they find out that a guy wants to go to the priesthood they wanto to try and talk them out of it. Anna isn't like that. she is willing to wait it out to see if he leaves it on his free will or not. If not then she'll just leave just the way it is thats the only way they are going to get close to eachother as being friends thats ok with her. but then if he does decide to leave the priesthood then they can go from there. See some of these older priests had seen this coming with these new ordained priests but only the y can give them so much help and spiritual advice tothese newly ordained priests. So i think if she prays about to the situation and leaves it in god's hands she'll be alright.

Yeah I agree with you, it was good seeing you there also. Well,
i guess just have to wait and see what happens. i've been keeping her and him in my prayers. I know it can be tough look at weasel he went to the seminarya and just stayed there for a month or two now he went back hopefully he'll stay in the seminary this time but i know its hard though. Just hope the best of things workout for the best. Just keep anna and him in your prayers thats all we can do. As for weasel hope everything will go for him though forreals though.

Yeah, I keep anna and you know who in my prayers. Anna told me that Luis(Weasel) left the Seminary last year, i was like what happened? she was like he just ran off but I'm glad he went back though. i asked anna how he was doing she said that Weasel is adjusting to it now. I'm happy for him though. Shoot, I haven't talked to Luis in a while I saw him yesterday, at the seminary cuz I went over there with my cousin to visit his friend in the seminary over there in San antonio. But I didn't get to talk to him though. He was with them other seminarians talking and just hangingout. So I just waived at him man he looked happy though and i do wish him the best. He still looking good as heck though. I a

On another note, i hear that the Pope is gonna start allowing priests to marry. since he doesn't wanto to do anything about the sex abuse scandal. Due to the fact that the cost the vatican millions of dollars on the cases. So I don't know hfow true that is but that is what i had heard and read on the internet and on one of them catholic websites. i think they should let them catholic priests marry i think they will be happier not that aren't already cuz i know they are. But they will only be if they want to marry they don't have to if they don't wan to though. Se what happens.

Girl I know I heard that too. but its just going be an option for them to marry they don't have to but you know them are going to be happy about it though probably most of these young ones are going to be dating but thats only if he allows which he probably will. but i don't know. I just found out that my ex-boyfriend Iassac mora is in the seminary he went last month i'm happy for him though he would always talk about how he liked going to church when we were together and that one tday he is going to become a priest i was like ok if you say so. but now lok at him he is in the seminary and i thought he got married or something but no i shoult of never doubted him the way i did. he got me to go to church with him like once or twice but i didn't want to go anymore. I just wish him the best of /Luck. Kyle and some other guy went tohe semianary as well i'm just gona keep them in my prayers hope everything goes well for them and even for weasel. Anna is the one that told me, i guess cuz she talks to her cousin /Luis alot when he gets out of school them two are real close cousins ad they pull for eachother. I know she is glad that he is in the seminary now Well we will se what the pope does in a few days whatchanges he makes.

I'll be mad if he allows women into the priesthood cuz that wouldn't be good. But for to allow priests to marry is good that way it will save the vatican lots of money from them cases. Did you here that Fr. heriberto has satanic powers? I don't know if that is true. sounds scary though but he is good priests though and a good friend of anna's ad she isn't the one that told me somebody else did but I don't know.

Gurl, no fr.Heriberto does not have any satanic powers whoever told you that is lying. i even asked him myself last time when i saw him and he said no. He just a psychic i was like ok. Then i just kinda laughed. But he is a nice guy and a good priest even though i don't know him to well but I can tell that that he is a nice person him and anna been friends for a couple of years which is good. They Islams want to kill the pope for whatever that is he said about the muslims. Crazy I tell you the world is going mad or something to much vilence nowadayz. I wonder what the Lord is thingking about it at theis very moment.

i know if he does make any changes it will more likely be letting priests marry as an option to them i'm for it though it will fulfill their needs and desires. But well see what happens.

Well, yah that last part you said is true , girl, I have another problem see last saturday at the cathechist and other church ministries conferdnce. I saw anna over there. See and knowing that she is my cousin but we aren't very close cousins due to some relative issues. At the time I did see her there she was saying hi to two priests that she knows and i know one of them weel, the one that i know gave her a hug and i saw him rubbing his hand on her back outside her shirt like if he was checking t se if she had a bra on or something well thats waht it looked like to me. I told her go report it to the bishop or i will. She was like no, Your crazy it was just a hug. i told her from not where i was standing it look like he was feeling up and down her back. she was like no he wasn't it was just a hug dang, a priest gcan't ggive her a ug now or what. she got really upset or mad at me for telling her this. i know how much she loves the Catholic priests that she knows and becomes friends with.

then i said fine i'll tel the bishope myself and see what he says about it. i know the priest that gave her this supposingly hug she says it was. I saw her talking with the bishop and a priest at the tablle where she and her brother were sitting. so, i don't know if i did the right thing or not, but I went up to her table and told the bishop that there was something very important i had to talk to him about. He said ok. So, anna got up and said don't be lying on fr. diaz. she just lashed out at me and then took off to the restroom. the bishop was like whoa what is going on and i told him i'll just o talk to him about it in his office on Monday. One of the nuns just shook her head at me and went to the restroom to she if ana was ok. I should of known not to do that at a church related event. I know how much anna loves ther Lord. I kind of feel bad for doing that at the conference but it needed to come out one way or the other.

I had gone to some of the same classes that she went to during that conference and everytime shee saw me or looked at me she would say get out of here you are not wanted here satan and then she would look away from me. Everytime she said that to me i started crying cuz i felt like she was calling me the evil one.

But i did go to the bishops office on monday to have that talk with him and now he had called abnna on her phone and asked her to go to his offie and talk with him on what had happend on that day. she knows that i told him what i saw she isn't talking to me cuz of that. i don't know if she is going to forgive me for what i did or not. But now the bishope knows what I did and said was wrong and uncalled for. because anna and the priest said it wasn't true it was just a friendly hug. Other witnesses said it was just a hug even fr.rene said it was cuz he was beside them when fr. diaz gave her a hug. so, what am i suppose to do now, I'm all depressed about it and am regretting it.

Damn girl, she waht happens for jumping to conclusions. I was there at eh conference too. I was one of the witnesses and it was just a hug girl what were you thinking flaca. she waht you done. Can't believe you went that far just to try to get attention ot r in that case get a priest in trouble. You need to learn how o keep your mouth shut. It wan't true what you said to the Bishop. i think anna and fr. Ndiaz deserve an apology and a serious one to no just go i'm sorry. i think you need to say sorry and say that it was wrong for what you did and you didn't mean to ump to conclusions the way you did. Say it in a meaninful way and don't ever do that again. as for anna, saying get out of here Satan, i guess she felt that you were trying to get attention or something otr try to pull her away from the ministry that she is in and she was letting you know that sh wasn't going to let you do that not even the evil one. she learned how to put god in her life and she ain't going to let anyone come in between her and the good Lord and she already told you that in the beginning and yet you tried but you didn't succeed so that is why she said what she said and i wouldn't blame her for that either. sorry if I sound harsh but its te truth so please think tswice before saying something stupid liek you did.

Girl, i know preciousgirl, i just don't know if she will accept my apology. she doesn't even talk to me and she won't look at me when she sees me. i know that i messed up and it was wrong. son't know why i did it but i did. I don't think it was just to get a priest in trouble or anything. I don't know what got into me that day to tell you the truth. I don't blame you for being kinda hars but its true what you said. i'm planning on calling the Bishop to set up a time where i can apologize to him, Fr.Nelson diaz and anna for my actions last saturday.

well, i hope you did what you said you would. i've talked to anna today cuz I saw her walking by the church she goes to. I guess she was going for a long walk or something. i stopped her and had a talk with her. I asked her how luis was doing in the Seminary and she said he is doing good and he loves it there. I saac is doing good also. But anna told me that she has had some bad dreams lately about a bear trying to attack her and she was going to talk to one of the priests butr she didn't get to cuz i guess when me an her startd talking she forgot about it. One of the priest came out of his house and said hi and gave her a hug. Fr. Ernest is always hugging her everytime he sees her but thats good though. cuz they are good friends. i honestly think he likes her though even though he is a priest. But I don't know, he is always looking aher and smiling at her. Then after church He shakes her hand and gives her a hug. btu then he doesn't want to let go of her hand afterwards. But well see what happens maybe its a sign or something.

Yeah, i apologize to her and the bishop and to fr. diaz. the accepted it which is good, i don't think anna wanted to but she did anyways, but she talks to me but not much though. She'll just say hi and how's it going and then takes off. I know she doesn't hate me cuz she doesn't hate anyone even though they get her really mad like i did. she has changed alot since she got involved with the church. I'm glad to hear that Luis is doing good in the seminary and Isaac tambien. I htink your right i think he likes her too, even though he is a priest. Or maybe he is just being a flirt cuz he like having fun or something. It could be a sign also but don't know just have to leave it in God's hands. its just obvious cuz the way he looks at her and hugs her. But oh well, only the good lord knows

Hey girls, I dont know why y'all are disgusting this matter on here but would y'all please stop. It really isn't a big deal, I mean there can be somebody from the diocese of Lubbock that will read this and go tell it to the bishopand that can get Fr. ernest in trouble and I don't want that. so please stop while you two are at it. ok Thanks.

Oh we are sorry anna, we thought we could get some feedback on this situation but guess not. Nobody seems to care i guess but oh wellz. It sucks cua the priests are still not allowed to marry. Watch this new year the pope will have the courage to change the celibacy rules. It isn't even Church Dogma, its just a discipline. they ahould just let priests marry

Yeah, I know he'll eventually will change thenm celibacy rules. I hope it is sometime in the new year. I just think its a crazy way tho discipline them guys like that but oh well, what can we do. Its up to the pope. If he does decide to allow priests to marry, then it will be up to the Bishop to let the priests date and get married in his Diocese. So I don't know, see what happens. Even tthough some of the priests in the diocese of Lubbojk are my friends well, i would say about 15 of them are friends of mine. So they are pretty cool though. I hope you and preciousgirl had a good Christmas i know i did. Well, I know I ain't gonna see for New Years y'all have a good one and safe Nerw Year.