Major Problem, w/friends

ok well one of muh friends who is like a second BEST FRIEND well lately i have been hearing she has been talking chet and well one day muh best friend EMA called her on three way and then that's when i heard 4rm her MOUTH that she was talking chet about me well anyways i was pissed so recently one of muh guy friends bought me a gift for v-day but since i didnt get him anything he gave it 2 her well she calls me and tells me this "hey guess what michael gave me ur gift!" i was pisssed and well i started 2 cry cuz thats wrong and one of muh friends called me and he knew i was crying so i told him why and then we hung up and the next day muh best friend EMA calls me and says that CLAUDIA is sayng all this chet que im always crying and chet well i got pissed and FFRIDAY NIGHT I CALLED HER AND SHE DIDNT ANSWER SO I LEFT HER A MESSEGE SAYING

"UR A F******* LIAR U LIE 2 DAMN MUCH AND U WONDER WHY I DONT TELL U CHET ANYMORE CUZ U TELL EVERYBODY AND UR A F****** BACKSTABBER !

THEN SHE CALLED ME AND LEFT ME THIS MESSEGE

MAN UR THE F**k**g DUMBASS UR THE ONE WHO IS TALKING CHET ABOUT ME I ALREADY KNOW LUIS AND MICHAEL TOLD ME EVERYTHING!


AS ALWAYS SHE BELIEVES THE GUYS OVER US

AND THEN SHE CALLS AND SAYS SHE IS GONNA GO 2 MUH HOUSE SO SHE CAN TALK SHIT AND I THINK SHE WAS JUST TRYING 2 ACT ALL HARD IN FRONT OF THE GUYS CUZ THEY WERE THERE.

I MEAN ME AND claudia used 2 be real kool every weekend we would always hang out and i would buy her things like lil gifts and ice cream and wut not and she would always say thank u but now i realized she USED me for so many things especially for muh MONEY and i feel so bad no cuz now i know all the peepz thay hang out with her are gonna turn their backs on me and thats f**k*d up if they but knowing them they will so now i dont know wut to do!

i want 2 have a decent conversation with her like face to face not on the phone or text messege or should i just pick muh self up again and start over with BETTER FRIENDS?

all the people she hanngs out with our all the people i hang out with and i know i am gonna lose them over her and i dont want that

i mean i have noticed that she choosed the guys over her grls which is also f****d up but hey she does wut she wants and get wut she wants !

but she forgets everytime she talks chet about me she says it right in front of muh BEST FRIEND which is kool cuz i know everything but still now i dont want muh best friend 2 get in this cuz she told me but its 2 late she is already in it and i dont want CLAUDIA 2 take it out on her so wut should i do?

let it go and never talk 2 her again or talk 2 her about it ?

This post has been edited by XxSmileyxX on Feb 22 2004, 05:48 PM

hey grl damn that's some Funnyked up shit...i know u must feel like shit!! i've been there before....that's why from now on i jst don't give out my opinion...well what i think you should do is talk to her face to face...no yelling or none of that shit....just face her with the truth...tell her what's really going on...and as for ur other friends going w/ her....there jst fallowers... and about michael giving the gift to her...it didn't even mean anything if he gave it to her when the gift was REALLY for U...but since he wanted somethin in return he got pissed and gave it to her instead..if she doesn't want to listen to you just forget her...she never was a friend in the first place....a friend will NEVER talk about another FRIEND..just keep ur head up and if u need someone to talk to...i'm always here...good luck to u grl...

yeah i agree what u said slima~

but also....that is wrong for him to give the present to another girl which was for u... well girl i'm always here for u..holla atcha girl

This post has been edited by XxXdrewsbaby88XxX on Feb 24 2004, 08:00 PM

she called me last night when i was target and she had the nerve to talk 2 me about her new dog and all this shit but i think the only reason she called me was cuz luis her best friend and her boyfriend werent there!

well friday night she called me and she apoligized and said she was really sorrie and que she wanted me back and all this and then she started crying and making me feel bad when she should be feeling bad well then she said some words that rerally got 2 me

" amanda u r like a sis i never had but always wanted i trust u and i love u and i dont want 2 lose ur friendship and cant we just forget about this i can but can u ???""

and i was stuck for a moment but now we are friends again hopefully we can lear 4rm this lesson and not happen again and then saturday she called me asked me what i was doing and if i wanted 2 go 2 the mall with her and i said yea so i think we have settled this !

but still if this happened 2 u would u make up with the person or just let it go and never talk 2 them again?

IN MY OPNION I WOULD MAKE UP WIT DA PERSON B-CUZ I HATE TO B MAD AT PPL N SHYT CUZ IT GETS ME STRESSED N STUFF BUT LIKE ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS,JESSICA, SHE IS SUCH A FREAKIN HOE N SHE FREAKS AROUND WIT GUYS THAT ARE LIKE WAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYY OLDER THAN HER N SHYT WELL ANYWAYS I HAVE JUS LEARNED THAT PPL HAVE THEIR OWN WAYS AND SUM TIMES U JUS HAVE TO ACCEPT IT NO MATTER HOW MUCH IT MIGHT GET TO U!!!! I DON'T TALK TO HER AS MUCH BUT SHE STILL LIKE A SIS TO ME CUZ BEHIND ALL DA DAT SHE IS A VERY GOOD FRIEND SO.....NO MATTER HOW MUCH UR H-GURL LIKES TO BE DA "SHYT' IN FRONT OF GUYS IM SURE DEEP INSIDE SHES GLAD TO HAVE A FRIEND LIKE U!!! WELL HOPE I HELPED!!!


ITZ YO PIMPISH BISH MZ.V!!!!

This post has been edited by *~*Slim's ChubbyGurl*~* on Mar 5 2004, 03:49 PM

well now i think she has the feeling i dont like her @ all cuz everytime she calls me i am busy and everytime she wants to go somewhere i always have sumthin 2 do but its not my fault and i dont do it on purpose but i think she thinks i do it to get her back

but yea i dont think i can trust her anymore

i mean wut would u do if u were in my place??

First of all you shouldn't cry for things like that, it shows that you're the weaker person and can't hack it. Obviously she's not a true friend if she's doing all that to you and if I were you I would just let it go and stop talking to her but if she keeps on with the BS, just beat her azz!

I AGREE JADE see but she hasnt done anything to offend me or done anything to piss me off. she invites me everywhere she goes she even offers 2 come and pick me up even if it is out of her way. i dont know but i still can not trust her for anything i dont think i ever will again but dont know yet!!!!

I HEARD THAT MY BEST FRIEND MARIA WAS TALKING CHET ABOUT ME SO I CAME UP 2 HER I TOLD HER WHAT THE FunnyK U'R TALKING CHET ABOUT ME IF I HEARD U ARE TALKING CHET ABOUT ME I'M GOING 2 KICK U'R FunnyKEN Butt HOLE!!!!! I SAID? AND SHE SAID THAT SHE WASEN'T TALKING CHET ABOUT ME I SAID WHAT EVER!!!!SO WE STAR 2 FIGHT SO IGOT SUSPENDED AND THE FUN PART WAS WHEN EVERY WAS YELLIN GO TANIA!!! AND SOME OF THEM WERE YELLING GO MARIA!!! BUT SINCE THAT DAY I HAVEN'T TALK 2 HER AND SHE SENDS ME LETTERS I DON'T WRITE HER BACK.

OK WELL AS U MAY ALREADY KNOW THIS GRL IS THE SAME ONE WHO IS GOING OUT WITH MICHAEL.

I HATE HER I MEAN NOW I REALIZE once a backstabber aslways a backstabber

then she gonna call me like at 12 am im asleep and she leave like a 5 min voice,

i cant even understand wtf she saying!!

I HATE HER!!!

thats some you dont do that shit man!!!...i know what u going thru chick!!...

MAN MAN MAN

me and this grl CLAUDIA have been alright! but i still dont like her for what she is doing but O WEL well yeah well she is having a PARTY manana and she keeps tellin me she wants me to go but i dont know i dont wanna see her and my x-CRUSH all up on eachother which i know they will be!! me and her are FRIENDS but would friends do the things she has done to me NO NO NO I DONT THINK SO. so why am i still her friend BECAUSE I am the TYPE OF person who CANNOT be mad at a person for more then one day i guess in a way u could say i am the type of person who u can WALK ALL OVER!! but yea and then she is tellin people that "if amanda still liked michael i wouldnt be going out with him, no she is like my sister and she told me herself that she doesnt like MICHAEL anymore so thats why i am with him"! i mean those are her EXACT words!! But owell but now i feel sorry for MICHAEL cuz im not even talking to him anymore because of her i feel like if i talk to him she might get mad and all that shit so thats why i dont talk to him but then i start thinking well maybe he feels the same way that we cant talk because we do not want to UPSET claudia!!so yea but right now i am just having so many problems i cry every now and then about this because i still have MAD FEELINGS for him and it just HURTS me so BAD to hear her talk about himand to see them TOGETHER. i know i shouldnt feel like this but she was my friend and friends dont do this. so why am i feeling like the GUILTY on? i didnt go out w/my bf's crush NO I WOULD NEVER EVER DO THAT so why does it make it right for her to do it to me? i feel like shit at times because all the guys take her side and defend her like she is their KUEEN and i HATE that because i mean she is no better then anyone one of us grls in the clique!!!so yea

so wut should i do? why am i feeling like this when she is the one that hurt me? should i start talkin to michael and risk the chance of her getting mad at me or should i just keep my feelings to myself as i have been doing?

^^Girl. Mira, to tell you the truth, he was just your crush right? You were never officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Also, although that was shady of her, I think you should hold your head up and just MOVE ON. Show them that you're okay with it and you can live your life. You can still eat, breathe, sleep, without him. Plus who knows, if you go to parties you'll meet a new guy! Just have fun, and talk to Michael like a friend. Don't start telling him your feelings because why do it? You'd just be messing up their relationship and then you would look bad, like you're trying to break them up since they are together.

dis grl is still with him and i mean everytime i see them 2getha it gets on my verylast nerves and then she will be huggin on him and kissin him like right in front of me

and now since he came back over here to my school she always sends me text messages tellin me to make sure he dont talk to NO GRLS itss annoying i dont even know y i am still friends with dis grl i dont like her as much anymore

she has been like such a backstabber i mean now she hardly has any friends left cuz she loves to talk shit about ppl